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Sweet 16 Party Ideas

Becoming 16 is special for any girl. Your daughter may feel that at 16 years old, she’s not considered a kid anymore.

Birthday celebrant

To make this event truly momentous, why not throw a delightful party for your teenage girl? She’ll want to remember this memorable birthday. Of course, it’ll take planning and proper preparation for this event to be successful. If you’re wondering how you’re going to pull this one off, don’t worry. Here are some ideas that you can try:

Before You Start Planning

Organizing a sweet 16 party sounds exciting, but before you get thrown in all the party planning hype, there are a few important considerations you have to think of for the event to be successful.

  • Set a realistic budget. Preparing an extravagant party sounds wonderful, but do you have enough money to splurge on this one? A sweet 16 party is an important milestone, but breaking the bank for it is not a good idea. Before you start buying stuff or even deciding on a theme, set the budget first. You don’t need to spend a fortune to make sure your girl has a fun time with her friends. If you need to, stretch it a little bit, but make sure on you’re still on track.
  • Involve your teen. A surprise party might be fun if your daughter is a bit younger, but since she’s a teen already, she probably wants to be involved with what’s going to happen during her special day. It’s also likely that the ideas you have will not fit what she’s got on her mind. You might be eager to throw a princess-themed affair for her, yet she wants a disco ball and a 70’s dance floor. Sit down and talk about the event. Discuss what ideas you have in mind, and listen to her suggestions.
  • Discuss the guest list. You and your daughter need to settle this other important matter. Who are you planning to invite? Is it going to be a small gathering, with just a few family members coming over? Will it be extravagant? Is it an all-girls event or will there be boys invited? Deciding on the guest list lets you take care of other party matters, like the theme (boys may not like girly motifs), the food (the more people you invite, the more food you need) and the venue (a larger party needs bigger space).

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  • Capture the moment. Have your camera or video recorder ready for the event. It’ll be nice to have photos and video memorabilia of the fun time everyone had during the party. If you want, you can hire a professional photographer to capture the event, but if you want to save cash, you can just ask a friend or another relative for help.
  • Be there. Don’t leave the teens by themselves. No matter how they say they’re all grown-up and mature enough to take care of themselves, it’s still your responsibility to know and keep watch of everything that’s happening at the party. Make it clear that you’re there during the event, but be discreet about it. Keep a low profile and let the teens enjoy themselves without feeling uncomfortable.

Sweet 16 Themes

Most sweet 16 parties have a general theme. Parents usually just send teen-themed invites, prepare the venue and a delicious banquet, and have friends and family over. This is great, but won’t it be nicer if you can have one theme to unify the whole celebration? It’ll be more fun for the guests and easier for you to plan. Examples of sweet 16 party themes you can have include:

Hawaiian party

  • Sleepover Party – Prepare the sheets, pillows and munchies and let your teen and her girlfriends have a fabulous overnighter with this kind of party.
  • Car-themed party – In most countries, 16 is the legal age to get a license, so this cool theme will suit your birthday babe just fine.
  • Dancing theme – If you’re having a co-ed party, this will work just fine. Get the disco ball out, prepare the dance floor and let everyone groove the night away to their favorite dance music.
  • Hawaiian Party – If you’re looking for a theme that’ll go well with the summer season, then this is a peachy idea. Let everyone wear their swimsuits and prepare a party by the pool or at the beach.
  • Princess Theme – Some girls still enjoy being treated like princesses even in their teenage years. Celebrate with pink, pink, pink and sparkly accessories.

Just a note: make sure your daughter agrees to the theme you’ve chosen — after all, it’s her birthday. Let her decide if the theme is “cool” enough. Once you’ve agreed, you can now move on to the other aspects of the party.

Sweet Invitations


First thing’s first: you have to let everyone know that you’re having a fun celebration. Once you’ve finalized the guest list, you now have to get invitations that’ll suit the event you’re having. Make sure you mail them at least a couple of weeks or more in advance, so everyone will have time to prepare for it. You should also put the right party details, including the time, place, date , attire (if you have a dress code) and your contact details, so your guests can RSVP.

There are many ready-made invitations sold in party supply and craft stores today that’ll suit your daughter’s 16th birthday party. For parents who don’t have much time on their hands, getting these pre-made invites is a better option since all they have to do is put in the details and mail them. These invites come in different designs and patterns to suit the party’s theme.

If you want to want to add a personal and special touch to your invitations, you can also send homemade ones. It just takes a bit of creativity and some art materials. You can use the celebrant’s photo for the invitation’s front cover. Vamp it up with glitter, sequins and colorful paper, and you’ll end up with a lovely creation to please your guests.

You can also make car-license invitations. Make some fake car licenses, and put the guest’s names on them. Behind the card, write something like “We’re going for a drive to ____’s sweet 16 party!”. Put them in envelopes or card holders, and give out to all the guests.

Another idea is to send actual party favors as invitations. Find those that suit your girl’s personality, like a girl figurine wearing earphones, or a CD, if your girl likes music. Attach a tag to the item containing the party details.

While many prefer traditional invitations, there are some who inform their guests via the Internet. You can easily e-mail personalized electronic invites with different designs on them to your teen’s friends. Electronic invitations let you save time and money, so if you don’t want to burden yourself with this party aspect, then this is a more practical choice.

Sweet 16 Decor Tips

Whether you’re having a simple backyard barbecue, a sleepover, or a fun day at the beach, you have to dress up the party venue to make the event more exciting and more enjoyable. Here are 16 simple tips you can try for the party.

  • Settle on a color motif. Most teens like girly colors, like pink, purple and yellow. This is perfect for parties that say "No Boys Allowed!"
  • If you’re having a co-ed party, you can mix the girly colors with other hues to tone the girlishness a bit. Try purple and silver or yellow and green.
  • Get the usual decorations, like balloons, confetti and streamers in the color motif you chose. Not only are these inexpensive, but they’re also flexible.
  • Hang streamers at the party entrance.
  • Hang streamer

  • Put a large picture of your daughter on a wall. Place a banner over it that says “Happy Sweet Sixteen ___!”
  • Prepare a guestbook. Put it at the entrance so the guests can sign their messages before they enter the venue. It’s wonderful memorabilia your teen can keep.
  • Cover the tables in the colors you’ve chosen.
  • Sprinkle flower petals, sequins or glitter all over the table surfaces.
  • Teenagers love to dance, so make sure you have a dance floor and a disco ball ready for them.
  • Put up sparkly lights or neon bulbs for a brighter atmosphere.

  • Guests book Petals on table

  • Light up 16 candles and put them around the place. Just make sure they don’t topple over or cause any fire hazards.
  • Always have background music throughout the event. It’ll put everyone in the party mood.
  • Hire a disc jockey to keep the music flowing. You can ask a family member or a friend to do this for you.
  • Fresh flower vases make delightful table centerpieces. You can also get clear glass bowls and float little candles in them along with a few flowers.
  • If you’ve got enough budget, get a chocolate fountain or an ice sculpture as a wonderful centerpiece.
  • Opt for plastic cutlery, glasses and paper plates for easy clean up.
  • Hawaiian dress

    What To Wear?

    The dress code of the party depends on the type of theme you’ve chosen. If you’re having a Hawaiian theme, ask everyone to come in their swimwear. If it’s a sleepover event, they can wear their pajamas or night gowns. For a retro party, they can wear colorful hippie clothing. Your guests can either don simple, comfy, casual clothes or be extremely stylish in semi-formal outfits. Whatever dress code you’ve decided, the important thing is to let your guests know beforehand so they can prepare their costumes. Include these details on your invites.

    Six Teen Activities

    Here are several activities you can try out for this special birthday event.

    • The Vanity Session - Since 16-year olds love primping themselves up and looking beautiful, this is a wonderful activity they’ll enjoy. Hire people from the salon to give the girls manicures, pedicures, haircuts and facials. Spa or massage treatments are also relaxing and enjoyable activities they will like.
    • Tarot Card Reading - If you know anyone who can read fortunes using tarot cards, you can have this activity. Let the girls line up and have their fortune read to them. You can also have a tarot reading tutorial where the reader can teach the guests how to use and read the cards.
    • Dance Lessons - Teenagers get so excited when they’re out on the dance floor. Instead of having a typical disco session, why not vamp it up by booking a teacher to give them dance lessons? You can choose a genre your teen likes, such as hip hop, Spanish dances or even ballet. Everyone will not only learn, but they’ll also have a marvelous time.

    • Hawaiian dance Henna tattoo

    • Karaoke Challenge - Prepare a karaoke machine and let them have a karaoke competition. The one who scores the highest wins a special prize.
    • Henna Fun – Many parents wouldn’t be too happy seeing permanent tattoos etched on their kids’ skins, but they surely won’t mind temporary henna tattoos. Have a henna tattoo artist come over and give tattoos for the girls. They’ll find this an exciting experience.
    • Sixteen Candles - This is a sweet way to honor the birthday celebrant. Before the party, pick out 16 people whom the girl considers the most special for her. When it’s time for the birthday cake blowing tradition, have these 16 people come up one by one and light one of the candles. They should also say a wish or shared some words of wisdom or advice for the birthday girl.

    Sweet 16 Banquet

    There’s an easy rule when serving sweet 16 party food: keep it simple, but keep it good. Teenagers aren’t as picky as kids when it comes to their food, and they aren’t looking for something stylish, unlike grownups. Plan a menu that they can handle even when they’re chit-chatting, playing or walking around. Sloppy dishes are a no-no, since these will only mess up the venue.

    Shrimp kebabs

    You can serve:

    • Pigs in a blanket
    • Mini pizza
    • Fries with dip
    • Nachos
    • Cheese sticks
    • Veggie platter with dip
    • Shrimp kebabs

    If you want something more filling, pizzas and burgers are great since teenagers find these enjoyable. The great thing is, you can either cook or have them delivered from a fast food resto or a pizza parlor. Just make sure you get several different flavors so they won’t get tired of the food easily.

    It’s also nice if you can whip up a delicious dessert after the filling meal. Aside from the usual cake and ice cream, you can serve sundaes, tiramisu, raspberry and chocolate fondue, chocolate truffles and strawberries and cream.

    When it comes to the drinks, you might want your teenagers to stick to fruit sodas and punch. Milkshakes and fruit shakes are also fine. Never serve alcoholic beverages. Remember, you’re responsible for their well-being and if they get drunk, it’ll be your fault.

    Sweet Giveaways

    No matter how sweet a celebration is, it has to end sooner or later. Before saying goodbye to the guests, give them a little something to remember the fun time they had. Give out memorable party favors.

    If you don’t want to spend too much, you can get inexpensive party favors, like:

    • Disco ball earrings and necklaces
    • Sequined hats
    • Wrist streamer

    • Earings Personalized mug Scented candles

    • Personalized mugs
    • Personalized t-shirts

    Edible giveaways are always a hit among teenagers. Yummy examples include:

    • Custom-designed butter cookies
    • Personalized chocolate bars
    • Personalized mint tins

    If you’re looking for something more stylish, you can give out party favors like:

    • Silk cosmetic bags
    • Hand-painted blown glass decorations
    • Scented candles and incense
    • Beauty soap and lotion

    Check out this video to have more idea on how to make you’re daughter 16th birthday party more fun.

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    Turning 16 is definitely sweet for any girl so it’s only nice to celebrate it with a fun party. Try out these ideas and plan a wonderful bash your daughter will never forget. It’s a marvelous way of welcoming her into another wonderful chapter of her life!

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